September 29, 2010

Like what I've mentioned from previous CC entries that I love and accept my husband as what he is but as we go along with our married life we've learned  that  still there are many things we  didn't know about each other and each day is a discovery stage.
 
And as much as we wanted each other to be like what we want us to be....there are certain things you can't simply change just because your husband/wife wants it. Like for example...Hubby wants that other than my work I shouldn't be engaged into anything that would make me busy during the weekends or after office works. Stubborn as I am even the day he came to Dubai I was already a member of so many groups which makes me real busy during the weekends and I am happy with what I'm doing either it's for upgrading skills, learning new things or supporting an alumni group. With that what I wanted from him is the support that a husband can give to his wife in anything that makes her happy for as long as our marriage will not be at stake. Other than that he wants me to remain simple...without the make up, the accesories and the makatawag pansing pananamit like sexy shirts, tight jeans, short shorts and most specially wearing two piece swim wear even if others do. He wants me to act maturely and not as childish and hardheaded as I am.
 
With regards to what I want from him.... I pray that he will trust me more inspite of everything I do and everywhere I go. Lastly what we wanted from each other is to remain faithful and loyal to each other.

Rodliz’s Nest

10 comments:

Vhen said...

yes, loyalty and faithfulness. i agree...

lovely post! following you..

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Roxxy said...

just as what every couple wants! Good day!

Soulful said...

yes, you don't need to be anything else but 'yourself' maybe a little 'adjustments' will make things better..

Rossel said...

yes, husband and wife should support each other for anything.

my CC entry is here. have a nice day!

imriz said...

you are lucky, you have the freedom you wanted. i guess, trust is the ALL-IMPORTANT base in a marriage. keep the romance alive,girl. TC

Mommy Liz said...

what about a little less activities on the weekend, and more clothing when you go to the beach.. hehehe! aba eh yan ang gusto ni Marlon, wala bang compromise? Minsan kasi Sheng, kapag me asawa na ang tao, need na mag adjust kugn anuman ang nakagawian nila when they were still single. If ayaw ni Marlon na magsuot ka ng sexy short clothes na lumilitaw ang pagka desirable mo, well, maybe cover up a little and try to give what he wants, baka less confrontation and less selos di ba? It's not that he's trying to change your way, but you yourself might need to consider the fact that he doesn't like it. Yung pagiging stubborn mo, he probably thinks that you need to be tamed, hehehe. why not give him what he wants? less outside work activiites, less make up and more clothes, oh di ba? it's just my opinion, kilala mo naman ako, I say what I think..

niko said...

sng seryus dito teh! pero lahat ng sinabi mo ay tumpak nmn.. sa lahat love and faithfulness ang dpat di magbago..

si hub mo prang si yobib rin hehhe

anne said...

Loyalty and Trust that's what other want also, maybe your husband loves you so much and he is afraid of losing you, that's why he is so worried when you go to other place without him around

Clarissa said...

You both should think of balancing everything most especially the time--dapat merong time for him and of course,you should have your 'me' time.
Minsan nakakasakal din ang sobrang mahigpit.Kasalanan nya,nag-asawa cya ng maganda^_^(just making you smile dear)

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bj said...

Thanks so much for coming by. I am very glad to know you.

Loyalty and trust..can't have a good marriage without them.

O, and we've been married 50 years and STILL learn new things about the other. :))

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