I remember one time we’re (ASMSI UAE Chapter members) on our way home when Mr. President’s wife called him asking where he is already….he replied and before cutting the line his wife told him “ I Love You ‘Be” and he said “I Love You Too ‘Be”.
When the line was cut… I told him “Kuya, ang corny nman parang nde kau magkasama” sabay sagot “lahat ng pagkakataon na puede mong sabihin sa kanya na mahal mo siya gawin mo dahil nde mo alam kung ano ang puedeng mangyari at baka huli na para masabi mo kung gaano mo siya kamahal.” He asked me then…”BAkit kau nde?” sabi ko “Nde po”
Then when I came home I realized and asked myself when was the last time we told each other “I Love You” I know how much we love each other but we’ve never been so vocal to say those words. Maybe on text messages, email or chat we can say “I Love You ‘Ney” but not when we’re together…
So from that day on.... I’ve learned to tell hubby “lab u ‘ney, lab u po…mwaahh mwaahh” everyday esp. when I go home and he’s asleep I would wake him up with a kiss and whisper him “lab u po”. I realized, everyday and every minute of the day is a chance to tell our spouses how much we love them. It’s not only during anniversaries, valentines, and holidays or when we want to ask for something or you want him to do things instead of you doing it…
I know there are many other ways we can tell our spouses “I Love You” but it really feels good when u say it in words…
It was like yesterday when hubby received an award "New Comers Award" during the annual party of
Pacman - CCL last year. Then last Thursday another wonderful party was held at Dubai Millennium Hotel to celebrate the good standing of the company for the whole year despite of the global crisis.
I don't know if how many more annual party of Pacman - CCL will i be attending. Hubby's plan for now is just to finished his contract and then we'll go home for good. If i can only tell him that i want to stay here for more years....so i hope things will change...
Everyday of our lives is a day to discover new things about ourselves. We’ve been living together for nearly 2 years now and I can say that still I don’t know him very well and vice versa. But there are certain things that I absolutely know about him and still trying to know more about him.
He clearly believes that he is handsome and he would always let me affirm it. He has a great sense of humor but mostly on a negative side. He loves to tease everyone and he even makes fun of those sales ladies at the mall. He is not sweet and he even hates holding his hand on the public.
He loves gambling especially cockfighting. He has several roosters in the Philippines being taken cared by his father and ready for a cockfight derby when he goes home. Name every card games and he knows it. He can spend the whole night playing cards. He used to wager in a lottery way back home. He even bet for Manny Pacquaio’s opponents which make him lose all the time.
He hates shrimp & fish paste and ketsup. Later he loathes milk fish and tilapia when one time he smelled and tasted it like mud. He loves sinigang (kusido from our own dialect….. this is the only viand which we can have for lunch and even up to dinner), shrimp sautéed in garlic butter and beef stew. He is so meticulous when it comes to dining ware…it should be wash again even if it’s already cleanse.
He likes branded shoes and clothes reason why he only has few. His ultimate goal is to have a Technomarine wristwatch….the one that Willie advertises. He is very careless …..infact he left his caps, bag and uniforms in public bus or taxi.
He doesn’t know how to cook. The first time he tried to fry a fish had almost burned our flat coz he forgot that he was cooking, then next he fried hotdog which the plastic on it but later he learned to cook stir fried egg and tomato. Lucky Me pancit canton and boiled egg is enough to fill his hungry stomach when I didn’t cook or leave something to eat.
He is a very jealous husband…
That’s all for now…tried to ask him how well does he knows me but he did not say anything…:)
I was to lazy to update this blog...........for the reasons that I don't have an internet connection in the office for 4 days and don't have time to do it at home.
But for the previous happenings to our lives, last Friday we went to Emirates Mall. I was invited with my friends to go to Emirates Mall and since hubby's work is near to it, we just told him to go there after work.
And so we had our dinner to Papa Johns courtesy of our friends, took some photos around Emirates Mall and search for cheaper laptop and mobile phones.
We took the Metro going home......
Isn't it that the first duty of a husband to his wife is to love her? And a husband can show his love to his wife in many ways: by being courteous, kind and considerate, rather than speaking harshly to her. In Colossians 3:19, we read the following: "Husband love your wife and don't be harsh with them." Providing for her needs, thinking of his likes and dislikes, trying to make her happy, are also ways for husband to say "I Love You."
He maybe kind but it doesn't exempt him from being mean. His love for me blinded him that he almost don't see all the good things that I’ve been doing for him instead he's full of doubts, suspicion and negative thoughts about me or in all things that I’m doing.
I hate him for his everyday attitude……for asking and saying that I’m seeing other guy before I go home from work or whenever I leave the house to meet some friends. He is the most jealous husband in the world wide world and I really hate him for that.
There was one instance that he really made me angry. One time I came home late because I need to wait for my boss who’s working outside the whole day and was scheduled to leave that night…..he has to give me so many instructions so I have to stay and wait for him in the office. Then I went home really tired and hungry and when I reached home he was there welcoming me with his very irritating look. And when I entered our room he followed me and asked me whom did I met, where did we go and what did we do. Just imagine you were so tired and hungry and you will hear those words? That made my blood boils! I became so angry with him that I told him that he should never compare me with his coquette sisters because I never flirted with anyone. And with that he became so mad at me also…so we’re like two lions that are ready to sink our teeth into each other. I became so furious with him for what he said and why does he have to get angry with me also wherein he had started the fire. So what I did, I told him to pack his things and leave me and go wherever he wants to go….which he never did.
After an hours he was there comforting me and told me not to mention any member of his family when we’re fighting.
He maybe the reason why I always cry and get angry but still he was the same person I promise to love till death and so I’m always there willing to bear all his “love”. He calls it love(doubts, suspicion, negative thoughts)
Yesterday's plan was to roam around Dubai Mall, to take some photos at Souq Al Bahar and Burj Khalifa with my friend while hubby will spend his day off with his siblings who are celebrating their birthday but then before noon time our flatmates decided to go to Desert Safari. I was hesistant to join them because we don't have money (we spent a lot during the holidays and as of yesterday i didn't receive my salary) and i don't know what time hubby will come and if he likes to join also. If he did not it means i won't go also and so as my friend whom we invited.
I've been wishing to see a belly dancing and i can't really resist not to go, i was glad hubby's cousin lend us money for our ticket and hubby came before 12 noon and even if he really don't want to go....he was force to....coz he couldn't talk to me anymore and i don't reply to anything that he asks (which mean i am mad at him).
So then the rest of the group (Rm 609) invaded the Desert in Kalba. We had the adrenaline pumping ride in an off road 4 x 4 vehicle for the dune bashing. Then followed by taking photos with the camel and quad bike, henna tattoo, shawarma snack while waiting for the barbeque dinner (with kabab, lamb chops & chicken barbeque) and the most awaited part - the belly dancing at Homus Village Camp.
Hubby didn't really know that I've joined this Wednesday Meme and even if i tell him he won't be interested....so it doesn't matter if i share many things about him here hehehe....
Well , for today's topic......the most irritating/annoying habit for both....i don't know what makes him irritated about me....i dare not to ask...hehehe....so now I will just be talking mostly about his habits that really annoys me…
Bath Towel – I was like a mom who keeps on telling him again and again to put the towel back on where it should be after using it. He would always say “okay” or “opo” but most of the time “okay” and “opo” means that he would just leave the towel on our bed….
He can’t simply return a lotion, hair gel, moisturizer to where he took it instead he would leave it on top of our mini drawer without any cover.
Cotton buds – he can’t even throw or put used cotton buds on a trash bag and wait for me to do it…
What really annoys me about him (I don’t know if he’s the only one doing it) is when I’m in the middle of doing something and bigla nyang susundutin ang puwet ko…..grrrrrr!!! really I hate him for that…..
As what I’ve noticed the usual things that irritate him about me are;
When I do not wash again the plates, glass and spoon and fork before using it. Sobrang metikiluso niya pagdating sa mga bagay na ginagamit sa pagkain.
When I always mention his family every time we have a fight.
That’s all I can share for now…..
Mary Ann Cook says that the longer you’ve been married, the longer your list of pet peeves is bound to be. It’s not so much that your husband has added more bad habits over the years, but simply that the ones that were easy to put up with in the early days of your marriage have gradually eaten away at your nerves.
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